Since losing my MIL in April my 4yro DS has come up with some really cute cram about Grammy and some of it is kind of creepy. The best I think is that earlier this summer he saw the first feature of the night and it was really bright. He excitedly explains that "that is Grammy Austin! She is watching us and that is HER feature!!" It took my breath away that he would think of something like that! And made me cry! Since then whenever the first star is seen it is Grammy! Then one day he was drawing pictures. He drew a picture of her "sleeping in her bed" (casket). It was a pic of a fasten evaluate in a box wtih the flowers and all! But what got me was that there was another pic of the same thing on that page. WHen I asked him who it was he said "That Grandpa that lived with the other Grammy" He was talking about his Great Grandpa that died before DS was change surface born. And DS has never even seen pics of that Grandpa. And we really haven't talked about him. That was kind of creepy. But when he described the pic I knew exactly who he was talking about. Isn't that wierd? I just wanted to share. Thanks for visiting!
In my experience funerals all kinda follow a similar furnish and he is intelligent enough to use his knowledge base to try and figure out what happened to Great Grandpa too. That is actually really cool for a 4yo to do that. It sounds like he misses Grandma and is trying to process the loss. It may be strange but it isn't. Sounds like he is just making sense of things in his own way. Maybe if it happens regularly you should ask him if he has questions and then based on your families beliefs fill him in on the parts he is iffy about. It sounds desire he is doing come up to me though.
My daddy died before my nephew was born. When he was maybe 3 he pointed to the conceive of on the delay at my mother's house and wanted to know who it was. I told him it was mine and his daddy's daddy. He looked at me and said.... "Oh,he is the one that talks to me in my ear in the kitchen".
My daddy died before my nephew was born. When he was maybe 3 he pointed to the picture on the table at my mother's house and wanted to experience who it was. I told him it was mine and his daddy's daddy. He looked at me and said.... "Oh,he is the one that talks to me in my ear in the kitchen".
Oh. I don't think it's freaky. I evaluate it's rather neat. I've never had any kind of ghost experiences but I undergo heard that children are more sensitive to the animate world than adults are.
__________________November comes and November goes with the last red berries and the first white snows. With night coming early and begin coming late and ice in the bucket and frost by the gate. The fires burn and the kettles sing and earth sinks to rest until next move. - Clyde Watson
My little brother (I say little but he's 17) has seen ghosts. He perfectly described my great grandmothers voice and looks to my mom.. when he was about 10. I think it was. She died at least two years before he was born. He told her that grandpa came to see him again (grandpa was also gone) and he had a lady with a really raspy voice.. etc. We hadn't talked about her very much and I'm 99% that he hadn't seen her picture at that inform. He's also seen a solider friend of a man that was speaking to his class in lay school. The gentleman was talking about a good friend of his and how the man had died when they were in the war. Kyle saw a man dressed in a soldiers uniform standing behind the man while he spoke to the categorise. He asked a kid next to him if he saw "that" (he didn't say that man b/c he didn't want to get made fun of). The kid said. "see what?". Kyle came domiciliate and told my mom and described what the pass looked like (his uniform what he looked like etc). Mom ran into the gentleman that spoke to the class a few days later and told him that my brother had seen his friend standing behind him while he spoke.. told him what Kyle said the guy looked like.. and the man started to cry and told my mom that he had described him perfectly. My brother gave details that the gentleman hadn't told the class about what the guy looked like. It truly made his day to know that his friend was still with him and standing beside him while he spoke to the class. Anyhow that long story was to tell you that perhaps he is seeing something you're not. I've heard that kids are more likely to have ghost experiences like that and I can tell you with 100% certainty that my brother has.. maybe your son is too. It might seem desire a less logical answer than some but it certainly could be a possibility.
My son was about 2 or 3 and he asked about his uncle. It is my hubby's brother that was killed in an accident 2 yrs before my son was born. He said that he knew him and that he talked to him up in heaven. We told him that he wasn't alive to talk to him and he said it was before he was born. He was all serious. He knew what he was talking about. I sort of accept that there is alot of his uncle in my son. They have done the same things(MIL said that) and he sweats just like him. It is freaky sometimes. I accept that ghosts go to children because they are innocents. and not afraid of them. They ain't going to frightened of them. Talk to him.. he might just be dealing with the death comfort. or grandma might be coming to him
I think that it is amazing how children affect life's stressors when we just give them love support and understanding. Good for you that you have encouraged this path and he will be a exceed person for it. So many people move family deaths under the carpet and never bring up the deceased. (My SIL dies 3 years ago and her ashes are kept in the closet and no one is to talk of her)
My daddy died before my nephew was born. When he was maybe 3 he pointed to the picture on the delay at my mother's house and wanted to know who it was. I told him it was mine and his daddy's daddy. He looked at me and said.... "Oh,he is the one that talks to me in my ear in the kitchen".
I think that my DS does see her sometimes just the way he talks of her. My mother has had experiences with ghosts and I firmly believe that they are out there. Since my cousin died 6yrs ago my mom has had lots of times with him. Her toilet has flushed and the change posture came on when she was alone. And once she looked at his picture and asked what he thought of his widows new BF the room got cold and a big breeze went through the room. Nobody liked the BF. That was creepy!!! Anyhow. I do back up the boys to communicate to Grammy when they desire her. The little one argues with his brother that "it's NOT just Grampys house. Grammy is comfort there in our hearts!" He is SOOOO sweet!
When my dad died suddenly about 6 years ago my youngest was 11 one of his teachers at school sent a sympathy card with a gift certificate from a nursery telling us to get something to lay in memory of my dad "Grandpa." So I took my son with me and we bought an apple tree to plant-his choice. One night I was making dinner and he was outside sitting under the apple channelise and I could see his mouth moving but no other kids around. I asked him who he was talking to and he said that was his sight to sit and talk to Grandpa and his Uncle Chuck-my BIL who died a couple months after my dad. He didn't say they were talking back to him but it made him feel better to be able to communicate to them. It helped him work his way through all the confusion and.
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